Top Tips On Planning Holidays With Kids

These are generic tips as each child is different. Some need constant engaging, while others require free time for their own pursuits. Some like organised activities like theme parks, while others prefer more relaxed tours. Some kids walk, others don’t. Some eat everything, while others are a bit picky. One thing am sure all parents would agree is that if your kids are happy (rather not cranky or grumpy!) it’s a well planned holiday. While planning trips most travellers go through FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out) and that is when you end up planning an hectic and rushed up itinerary. Don’t mean to be prejudiced here, but most Asians have this problem and hence we have 7 countries in 10 nights / 11 days tours to Europe!

1. Picking the right destination

With some many countries on our bucket list and hearing friends and relatives about their wonderful holidays to different places, this can be the most challenging part. Go with what your heart says or if your kids have a certain wish, go by that. If it doesn’t match with your choice, most of us know how to convince them to change their preference (unless they are teens!).

Choose wisely, don’t take very young kids on an expensive safari holiday which they will not enjoy and unless you are travelling with a nanny you will be stuck in the lodge too. If you have toddlers, pick a beach destination like Mauritius / Greece / Corsica / South of Spain, etc. With 7 – 12 years, there are many options as they are old enough to understand historical sights too with the help of kid friendly guides. This is where you need to find out what interests them.

2. Book your flights

Once you have decided on the destination and know the number of days you can spare, look for good flight deals and book them. You can keep pondering over what to do there later. The flight fares are dynamic and the sooner you book it, the better the deal.

2. Check the weather

Going to Greece in early May to swim in the ocean is a bad idea. The water will be too cold for you to enjoy. Please don’t look at the average weather charts on websites as with the climate change phenomenon, most are no longer applicable. Instead read a few reviews of people who have visited the place previous year and go by their experience. If going to Europe, please carry rain gear and warm clothes as if it rains, the weather cools down drastically. Needless to say, hotel rates are much cheaper when the weather is harsher. Hence, Egypt would cost much less during summer but the heat will make you rush back to your air-conditioned room without enjoying the sights.

3. Holiday season

If your tour has theme parks, zoos, child oriented museums included, always try to visit the parks on a weekday as the crowds will be lesser. Also if you can, visit when there are holidays in India, but the places neighbouring the theme park don’t.

4. Food

Fortunately, with growing awareness about vegetarianism and people going vegan, food is not a problem for vegetarians. You will find an Indian restaurant in all major tourist areas. Please remember, in Europe most vegetarians eat fish and eggs, so their concept of being a vegetarian is different from ours. Please try to eat some local food and encourage your child to try it too. Pick a time when he / she is in a good mood if your child is a very fussy eater. Most places have their own special sweet treat, it would be a good idea to start with that and then go for a full authentic local meal. Ensure the restaurant is kid friendly and not very snooty to make you feel uncomfortable. You don’t have to sacrifice your evening out, ask the concierge and in most cities you will find a place where there is some music / entertainment where kids are allowed. There are interesting food tours like the tapas tours in Spain or boulangerie hopping in France, which can be done with kids.

5. Hotels

This depends entirely on your budget. At most beach places, the hotels have kids camp facilities to keep your child / teens engaged. When picking hotels in big cities, ideally pick one close to the tourist sites or what they call city centre. If it doesn’t suit your pocket, then choose a hotel which is away but has some form of transport close to the hotel. Remember, your child would not like to walk back from the station / bus stop after a long day out.

6. Sightseeing / tours

Personally, I am a big fan of walking tours as they are more immersive and my daughter doesn’t mind it too. There are Hop On Hop Off buses, but honestly I don’t find them very practical with kids. These are mostly for back packers with guide books in their hands who just want to make whistle stops and click pictures and finish 15 monuments in a day. Pick guided coach tours which are a good option if you do not like biking / walking / running tours. If you would like to do a walking tour but you are not sure if you child would walk, rent a scooter for him or if he skated carry his skates along. For kids upto 6 / 7 years you can also rent strollers.

While choosing long day tours, ensure you get your child is excited about it. Tell him in advance what to expect. We do know the art of glorifying things, even if we know it is not something of their interest! Here a good guide can really make or mar the trip. Like the huge Palace of Versailles trip can be very tiring and boring, if you do not have a good guide engaging you with a wonderful story woven with facts and trivia. Take a mini train or rent a golf cart as the complex is huge and tiring for the tiny feet. Take a break and give them free time to just run around the gardens and do their own thing, else they are bound to be cranky after a few hours.

For all your sightseeing tours ensure you have a prepaid entrance tickets. You don’t want to waste your time standing in queues and begin on boring note.

7. Free time

Don’t pack your holiday with organised tours and activities, that you don’t have time to relax at a local parks or have long coffee / wine breaks watching people go by and interact with the locals and spend some good quality time with the family. Most likely, it is the things you experience during your free time which would be your most memorable memories.

8. Inter-city transport

Though some transport system is very practical and tempting, I would still pick a car and drive through scenic alpine villages. But if you were commuting between 2 big cities like Paris – Zurich, I would advice taking a train or pick a low cost flight. Especially in Europe, low cost airlines are sometimes cheaper than train tickets too. But kids enjoy train rides, also you can save on hotel costs by taking an overnight train journey. In Greece, you can take an ferry for visiting different islands.

Do not forget to read books and watch movies with your children on the places you are going for a holiday, this will not only get them excited about the place, but also educate them on the monuments and interact to the guide.

Hope this blog is useful in planning your holiday! Happy planning…

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Experiential Travel with kids

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The Indian travellers are quite evolved and thanks to the Internet are also very aware. Their expectations now match global needs in terms of service, deals and most importantly, experiences. They now want to experience the place rather than just visit them or tick them off their checklist. Their bucket list comprises of activities like canyoneering a la James Franco in the Grand Canyon, go wine tasting or truffle hunting in Italy or France. Stay at a local apartments or do a homestay rather than booking a hotel, attend world-renowned events like running with the bulls in Spain or take surfing lessons in Australia.

Most of these experiences are for adults and hence, the notion that families with young kids should stick to theme parks, holiday parks in the UK or the good old beach resorts with kids clubs. Places like Rome, Florence and Angkor Wat are not the first choices for Indian parents for family vacations. They normally choose cruises or destinations like Singapore, Hong Kong or cities, beach places or theme parks, aquariums and zoos while travelling abroad. This is because they feel kids are not ready to absorb the history and cultural aspects of a new country.

There are however tours available where even historic places like the Colosseum in Rome and art museums like Louvre in Paris can be fun & educational for the entire family. I specialize in Family Travel and conduct trips, which include treasure hunt at the Colosseum and Louvre so that kids learn about the places in a fun and interactive manner. Even places like Hong Kong which most families visit to take the kids to Disneyland, can be given an experiential twist with a dim sum making class, visiting old monasteries or temples or may be a Kung Fu lesson for the entire family!

When a survey was conducted with about 100 mothers of kids aged 7 – 12 years, most of them wanted some time off for them to have a quiet dinner with the spouse or just enjoy some drinks without the kids. Include activities and workshops like an art class in France, pizza making in Italy, gladiator combat skills workshop in Rome, so that the parent’s have some free time to shop or visit a museum of their choice. However, not many are aware of the off-the beaten-path options available for families to enjoy together.

When we took our 7-year-old daughter to Singapore last year, her most cherished memories are those at Chinatown and not at the Universal Studios or Jurong Bird Park. Was it because she had already visited Disneyland in Hong Kong and a very good zoo in Bangkok? Or was it because she was intrigued by the Chinese culture thanks to the Disney film Mulan? I think it was the latter. It does help if kids know a little bit about the place they are visiting, so that they can connect with it. I always advise watching a movie or reading a book on the country you are travelling to. The names won’t seem so foreign to the kids and they will be able to make an immediate connection.

Hence, if you are planning to visit the Parthenon in Athens and think the kids won’t enjoy the ruins… think again!

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Where to go for a vacation? The big question…. – Part I

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We all have our bucket list of places to visit, which just keeps on growing each time we see a travel documentary, a movie or read about a new place. On the other hand, most of us have also been blessed with some wonderful memories of vacations we’ve had with our loved ones and families and wish we could re-visit those places to relive the memories. Here comes the big question, should we go to the place we know we love and enjoy or start ticking off our bucket list?

Being a parent we are also faced with another big question whether it would be worth the money spent on a vacation aimed to please the kids or are they too young? Honestly, the parents can only answer this question, as they know their kids best. However, being a travel consultant I do give some pointers to my clients, which I would like to share with a series of blogs:

Places with theme parks like Hong Kong or Singapore:

We all want to take our little ones to meet Mickey, Minnie and all the wonderful Disney characters at some point or take them to an international zoo or safari park. However, what I realized with my daughter is that theme parks can be quite tiring; especially with Asian weather and for a kid less than 8 years you have to give more time if you want to see the entire park. Pick a season when the locals and neighboring countries’ schools do not have school holidays to avoid huge crowds at the park. If you can afford, buy the fast track pass to skip the huge queues. Figure out in advance the timings to meet the characters you think your kid would like to meet. Merchandise within the park are super expensive (of course they are originals, hence the price), so think twice before you take your kid into the shop. I always give a budget to my daughter and she picks whatever she wants with that money. Helps them learn the lesson of spending wisely and make their own choices. Don’t forget to enjoy the experience with your child rather than going berserk clicking pictures and shooting videos.

Most parks like Ocean Park & even the ones in Singapore like the zoo & bird park have special educational and interactive experiences that can be booked at a fee. If you think you have a Jr. Zookeeper in the making, ensure you book these encounters where the kid gets a chance to get within the enclosures and spend quality time with the rangers.

Because there are so many themed parks on offer, all geared towards kids edutainment, we tend to spend days visiting one park after the other. My daughter doesn’t enjoy many organised activities and with so many kids around her, she would actually just want to gather all of them and have her own party going… but most kids are rushing to the next ride and hence she has to make do with just making friends in the queues! I remember at a park in Bangkok she found a wall where kids could draw with coloured chalks on a wall and though we had a planned schedule to see one animal show after the other, my husband and I just sat there chatting & relaxing over a cup of coffee while our darling was happy colouring the wall! We did exchange a glance, which said did we spend so much to come all the way to Thailand to draw on walls, but when we saw her having fun and us time to just chill, we didn’t mind it at all.

Vacations are about having fun and relaxing too besides checking out the sights. Do take time to just roam around the streets, mingle with the locals and take some public transport rather than packaging your trip so much that you are just rushing all the time. You and your kids will get a better insight about the lifestyle and people of the country when you use public transport and eat at local joints.

Big cities like Hong Kong, Kuala Lumpur & Singapore may end up giving you similar experiences unless you opt for non-touristy tours. Opt for walking tours rather than seat in coach city tours where you just whizz past places. Sample a bit of tradition by visiting religious places with a knowledgeable child friendly guide. Opt for a local activity like dim sum making class or a short Kung Fu or Tai Chi lesson with locals. Light an incense stick at a local monastery and make a wish on the wishing tree… Yes, I am still referring to Hong Kong & Singapore, the cities renowned for shopping and theme parks.

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Where To Go For A Vacation? The Big Question…. – Part II

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I had gone for party this weekend and she wanted to know what I meant by ‘Experiential Trips‘, so I started narrating my standard examples like treasure hunt in the Coliseum, making your own Venetian Mask, Art class post visiting the Louvre in Paris, etc. She started cringing and my ego just shattered, I have always had eyes sparkle when I narrate these tours. She said I had moving around so much on my holiday! I just want to do nothing and that is a holiday for me, but I do want my 7 year old occupied enough so that she doesn’t bother me. This blog is dedicated to parents for whom holidays mean ‘doing nothing’!

‘Doing nothing places!’

We are indeed blessed with out strategic location in South East Asia. Good connections to almost anywhere in Europe too, with a max one stopover. Firstly, I do believe that ‘doing nothing’ is an art and everybody is not lucky to have mastered it. I count my daughter & myself fortunate to have mastered this art! We have had many a ‘doing nothing’ holidays at exotic locations like Krabi, where we stayed at a luxurious hotel with kid’s camp and we spent 4 days hopping from the room – restaurant – beach – pool – restaurant – room – kids camp – restaurant. I forgot, I also sneaked into the spa twice while papa and baby were snoozing in the afternoon. We can’t wait to go back to the same place. Another good place is hiring a villa with some friends in Bali and one can skip going to the restaurant too, as you will have the chef churn up delicacies for everyone. Even more bliss!

If this seems too lazy for your liking, then you can rent a villa in Tuscany where you can go driving or bicycling around charming villages at your own pace. Or stay at an Agroturismo hotel, which has kids activities and cooking classes for the entire family. If you like beaches then the coastline of Liguria, popularly known as Cinque Terre. Whereas, my favourite Marche, let’s you explore both picturesque villages as well as the coast.

Related Read: Where To Go For A Vacation? The Big Question…. – Part I

Find a good base in Provence or Cote d’Azur in France, visit perfumeries or castles and dine at Michelin star restaurants. You can combine this holiday with a pre / post tour to Paris and you will have a perfect blend of ‘doing nothing’ and seeing sights holiday.

Greece is another place where you can experience a perfect blend of sightseeing and relaxing in a charming coastal town. Pick one of the islands which is not frequently visited like Naxos, which is also very family friendly, and make sure you do take them to see an Olive Oil pressing mill…. though it might seem like an effort, it is worth it!

The trick is to end the holiday on a relaxed and quiet note, where there is no abiding by schedules and running around so that you get back to your routine life on a happy note…. until you have to wake up early on a school day & wish the holiday never ended!

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